Worried about size?

When it comes to sex, "Am I big enough?" has to be the oldest question men ask themselves in the privacy of their own mind. And most of them answer the question the wrong way. You see, men always tend to compare themselves with other people. This always leads to doubts and questions about the size of their penises and performance adequacy. Many men go to ridiculous lengths to offset what they perceive as a shortcoming on their side.

This kind of behaviour is very common. Nearly every man asks himself the "Size Question" and since men are too afraid of the answer to ask the question directly, they never get a satisfactory answer to it. This fear of being too small may grow to become a serious problem for some men. It's a blight upon their confidence and it may drive them to do silly things. It's a shame that some men find nothing better to do with their time and efforts than to prove to themselves and to the world that they don't have small penises.

The average penis size is 5.5 to 6 inches. And since most men have this size and still think themselves below average, it follows that men are not very good at judging their own size. Actually, if you start asking men about the size of their penises, you can be certain that most men would give themselves an extra inch or two, just to come across as really hung guys. And the worst part of all this is the fact that most women care more about the quality and intensity of sex and less about the size of the man's penis. A bigger organ may look impressive, but if it's too big to fit comfortably inside the vagina or if the owner is clueless in bed, then all those inches are wasted.

Women are looking for other things aside from a big penis. It's not that having 7 or 8 inches doesn't help at all. Women like to eye men before getting into anything serious and a sizeable bulge in the pants scores points with them, but penis size it's really just an item on the check list for most women. Something akin to: "Penis size check - done. Now let's move on to something truly important". Studies and polls have conclusively shown that women are far more interested in partners with good hygiene habits and who know how to bring them to orgasm, big penis or no big penis.

If you're and average-sized guy and not content with your size, there are a few tricks to making your penis look bigger. The actual penis size can be hidden by the pubic hair. So, if you think you could profit from this, trim your pubic hair. Or you could lose some weight. The pad of fat located at the base of the penis can grow in size along with the overall body fat and may obscure the base of the penis. Losing weight would decrease the pad and bring back the hidden inches. A simple trick is to have a hot shower before sex. The hot water would help fill the penis with blood and make it hang heavier than normal.

Still, the easiest thing you could do is to have an honest talk with your partner and find out if your penis is adequate in size or if your partner actually cares about this. More often than not, an honest talk is likely to bring up other issues than penis size. That should be the least of your worries.

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